Couples that see each other all of time compromise their sex lives

In this day and age of technology, where two people work at home, see each other all of the time and have no space…..destroy their sex lives!!! 

We are all animals, when it comes down to true sexuality, seeing your partner all of the time, having no time to miss them or long for them destroys the sexuality in the relationship. 

Marriage and divorce are at an all time high, and it is not just that the economy is bad, it is that couples see each other too much.  Creating distance in a relationship is a good thing, missing your partner, longing for them is healthy. 

When sex is available all of the time, for many couples it can get boring…taking time to be apart and thinking about the other person can add excitement back to the relationship.

If you do work at home together with your partner there are things that you can do to create distance:  Take your computer to a coffee shop several times a week to work….take time to go with friends in the evening…..go on vacations without your partner….move out of the house for awhile (it is less expensive than a divorce) time apart does make the heart grow fonder if the heart is still in love…if it is not then leave, life is to short!  You want to have a great sex life then make it happen…

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Learn how to have better sex in your marriage

Sex is an important part of marriage, but also one of the first areas that goes to the waste side when a couple is having problems. 

Maintaining a healthy sex life is one way that a couple can stay connected to one another.

Many times when the relationship gets tough from added stresses in life, it can affect the couple’s sex life.  The solution is to make sex a priority, taking the time to work on the sexual intimacy in the relationship will help strengthen the bond between husband and wife.

As a sex therapist I work with my clients to help them better communicate and be more comfortable talking about sex with one another.  Communication is the key to working on the sex in the marriage, talking to one another about sex rather then keeping it in and getting frustrated.

 It is not uncommon for couples that have been married for awhile to still feel embarrassed talking about sex.  What happens is that they just over time expect their partner to know how to please them, but bodies change over time, along with sex drive, age and life changes.  What may have been a sexual turn on in the beginning of the marriage is no longer a turn on.  The couple does not want to express this to their partner, for fear of hurting their feeling or thinking that there is something wrong with them.

Sexual intimacy is a deeper connection to your partner, learning to be open, loving and free from constraints will help the love grow and keep the sex hot, who doesn’t want to have great sex in their life.

For Sex Therapy contact Dawn Michael (805) 732-7847 or email dawnmichael40@yahoo.com

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