Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Male sexuality, what all women need to know about their man?

 As a sex counselor I help men from around the world with various sexual issues and I have learned from each of my clients something new.   
There is no such thing as a” know it all” in the business of human sexuality.  My male clients talk about sexual fetishes, ways they get turned on or even their basic lack of knowledge  concerning their own body when it comes to sex.   

Men in our society today are not sure what the ideal of masculinity is all about.  How does a man define himself in western society where he is expected to be a man but also have all the emotions of a woman?    

One of the issues is “A man is always interested and ready for sex”.  Men are not always ready for sex, and when pressured it can lead to anxiety, even erectile dysfunction.

“Getting the penis to do it job on command and ready for intercourse”.   “sexual intercourse” and the pressure that it puts on sexual intercourse as the “main focus of the sexual experience.”    This is especially a problem when a man does have a problem with getting an erection, to always be focused on intercourse as the main goal of love making.  One way to avoid this problem is to take it slow allow the build up.  A man can be sexually excited and still have a semi hard penis, or even no erection at all.
Men’s sexual issues are so varied that there is no “normal” way to go about sexual response and it does differ form man to man.  A sexual response is when you receive some kind of sexual stimulation and it can be:  Touch, smell, sight, fantasy, fetish, whatever that erotic charge may be.  The increased volume of blood is pumped into various parts of the body including, the penis, the lips, earlobes, and breast.
 As a man ages the blood flow is not as fast and therefor the sexual response is not as fast.  Many men around the age of sixty have the repeated question of, “if their penis is not working the same or is slower to rise”.  The reason is because of the blood flow to the body is slower.   Male sexuality is three dimensional and unlocking the secrets of your man’s own unique sexual response will make for better; love making.

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